Dear Newcomer,
The Compassionate Friends Bluegrass Chapter wishes to extend to you an understanding hand in friendship. We are glad that you have found us but saddened for the reason that brings you searching.
We understand how overwhelming the feelings are that you are experiencing. As bereaved parents, we too have been there. While it is not easy to take that first step and face the reality of what has happened, it is the only way to begin to heal. It is a very difficult journey but one that we have found made easier by talking, sharing and having the support of others who truly understand.
We know that coming to that first meeting can feel overwhelming and may require a lot of courage. You may bring a friend to the meeting for support if you like. At our meetings no one is required to speak. Often at that first meeting people are not ready to share but find great comfort in listening to others share the same thoughts and feelings that they too have been experiencing. We often have a planned topic but discuss whatever our members need too. At the end of our meeting, time is available for members to gather and talk one on one. In addition to the resources that may be found at this website, we also have a lending library of books. Another support we provide to our members is our bimonthly newsletter. It contains many poems and articles written by parents and siblings that bring comfort, as well as information on other support resources that are available. Additionally, we have “telephone friends” that are available to talk with you at any time you feel the need.
In addition to being a support for bereaved parents, siblings, and grandparents we also provide opportunities where we honor our precious children and siblings. One such event is the Compassionate Friend's worldwide candle lighting ceremony held the second Sunday in December. During the summer we have a picnic and balloon release with messages to our children written on the balloons. At these special events family and friends are welcome to join us.
While the journey is difficult Compassionate Friends can offer a safe harbor from the storm. We offer you our friendship, a listening ear, compassionate support, and Hope. Please let us help you as other bereaved parents have helped us. This is your journey and you must walk it the way that is right for you. . . but know that you need not walk alone.
In Friendship,
The Bluegrass Chapter of The Compassionate Friends
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